I live by industry standards.
One thing I've done over the years is change the kit around to help the sound.
For quieter music I've often lowered the cymbals, then the overheads have come down, and in closer. Then the kit has been recorded more holistically. For louder, rockier recording, I've often raised the cymbals (quite a bit) and we've been able to adjust the overheads to capture the cymbals mostly, and a lot less snare, toms and kick.
In general I find the often seen crashes right on top of the toms set up to be the least effective when hoping to achieve separation between drums and metalwork.